Wednesday, April 27, 2005
Well, the good times are past... now it's time to wallow n deal with my emotions n be in control againI just wanna thank all my frens who have always been there for me... I love y'all guys n gals... muach! Makes me feel sooo darn fantastic to know that I've got great frens who care and sincerely lend a helping hand or a shoulder to cry on, or just ears to listen without sayin a word... huaaaaaaaaaaaa... I'm touched
Thank you God, for sending me wonderful amazing people into my life.
A big thank you to Fifi who listens to my endless whines and craps hehehe... Thx for being there when I needed u most... I hope u LOVE your new job ^.~ no more Mr. A... yeah, baby!
Thank you to Linda who's so sweet and sincere... we had a good laugh n cry, didn't we? Ambi's sooo darn lucky to have ya, babe!
Fupei members who replied to my journal in www.fupei.com ==> thx everyone for your support. Pics are coming... don't ya worry, bro...
Make sure u send me the song when u're done, huh Yus ^.~
Thank you also to the others who I can't mention here cuz the list will go on 4eva. You know who u r...
Even the sky is mourning with me hahaha... whatever. Now I'd better get some sleep. ZZZzzzzz
With a black T-shirt by my nose hahahaha... sniff sniff... *sigh* so good
si Monyet @ 4/27/2005 10:05:00 AM
Monday, April 18, 2005
April 15, 2005A Matter Of Choice
The Law Of Attraction
One of the most wonderful abilities we have is the ability to make choices. We can choose to think positive thoughts or negative thoughts. Likewise, we can make an effort to ensure all our actions contribute to positive outcomes or we can convince ourselves that negative outcomes are inevitable. Such choices can then have a profound affect on your life, for they are the seeds you sow in the universe. Your words and deeds, even the thoughts kept hidden in your mind, contribute to your experience by attracting similar words, deeds, and thoughts because of the Law of Attraction. It is a natural law, as easy to understand as "like begets like" or "what you sow, so shall you reap." It means that what you give to the universe will come back to you, giving you a huge measure of control over the direction and quality of your own life.
If you are patient, you will no doubt be able to see the Law of Attraction at work in your own life. To give a simple example, a smile freely given to a stranger or coworker often nets a smile in return, while a scowl directed at the same individual will most likely cause them to scowl back. On a larger scale your thoughts, feelings, and reactions to people and situations subtly change your aura. These changes in energy can act like a magnet, pulling similar energy to you, be it positive or negative. As you walk your path, you can use the Law of Attraction to help you create the life you want to live by making a conscious decision to emit positive energy. If you are experiencing unpleasantness at home or work, perhaps analyze your own treatment of others. If you find yourself under a great deal of stress, ask yourself if you have been focusing on the expectation of stress. Remember that your thoughts, too, can attract positive or negative outcomes.
Will you choose to focus on beauty, peace, happiness, and love, or to dwell on the faults of others or the world? It's up to you. Because of the Law of Attraction, your focus can easily become your destiny. Learning to alter your reality by attracting only positive people and situations, or, indeed, anything you desire, will open an infinite number of doors
April 18, 2005
Attention To Detail
Putting Your Best Foot Forward
It's said that first impressions take less than a minute to form. Every day, whether we are conscious of it or not, we leave almost indelible suggestions of ourselves in the minds of others. These suggestions are based on a multitude of factors and help others form opinions on our level of organization, our stamina, our self-respect, and our respect for others. Most people want to be seen in a positive light and one way to ensure this is to put your best foot forward. Your style can speak volumes, representing your strengths, and can demonstrate that you know and are comfortable with yourself. Putting your best foot forward isn't about luxury cosmetics, an expensive hairdo, or the "right" clothing. The key is to be both confident in spirit and polished in manner and dress.
During both first impressions and later rendezvous, others consciously and unconsciously attribute meaning to the image you present. One can look stunning and put-together in a pair of jeans with attention to detail or flat in a flashy suit if hastily put on. Though it may seem superfluous or even shallow, spending a few extra moments each morning to sculpt a unique hairstyle, shave cleanly, or file a jagged fingernail, it will show the world you care about yourself and that you have an eye for detail. The more polished you look on the outside, the more confident you will feel on the inside, and it is a positive cycle: People with good self-esteem inevitably take better care of themselves. Taking time to focus on yourself before facing the world also benefits the soul. As you enjoy your morning routine, you will have time to reflect on the coming day and to focus on being the best you can be.
Putting your best foot forward is not about fitting into an image, embracing the latest fashions, or making yourself into something you're not. Your idea of what constitutes a finishing touch will be different from that of your friends and family. But, in the simple act of going a step further in your presentation of yourself, you will be able to demonstrate your respect for others and yourself, your attention to detail, your ability to organize and coordinate, your uniqueness, and your love of yourself.
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si Monyet @ 4/18/2005 09:32:00 AM
Saturday, April 16, 2005
The other day, Rhob and Dorothy were talking about how Asian (Chinese, Korean, n Japanese esp) LOVED to make the peace/horn sign (pointer n middle fingers)... especially in pictures! It's not just the fingers, though, what's funny is when the whole body is kinda twisted here n there too, n the head too... here's a not-so-good example of one of those... posted especially for Rhob's entertainment ^.~
Don't worry, Vara, u still look adorable... peace ^.~si Monyet @ 4/16/2005 02:06:00 PM
Went karaoke at Twister on Thursday night... we had so much fun... Rhob especially, was amazing... too bad Steve, Sam, and Haidy couldn't come... but there's always a next time.
We sang songs from Elton John, the Killers, John Travolta, George Michael, Kelly Clarkson, Avril Lavigne, Dido, Shaggy, Cher, Mariah Carey, Alicia Keys, even Hillary Duff (uugghh)... pokoknya semuaaaa dah dr yg lagu2 tua sampe yg baru2
Karena di tempat karaokenya gak banyak tempat parkir, jd kita cuman pake 2 mobil aja... dibagi 2 group, yg ngerokok n yg gak ngerokok... yg ngerokok langsung dah ngerokok, belon juga jalan tuh mobil, udah gak tahan lagi hahaha. Untung gw gak ngerokok, repot bgt dah mesti keluar2 terus buat ngilangin craving.
Nih kalo mau liat pics nya... pokoknya seru deh. Enjoy!
Everyone, except Dorothy (she's takin the pic)
Dorothy... very nice pic, eh?
Marina
Jared singing Shaggy's "Angel"
Rhob relaxing
Marina tried one of her cool moves ^.~
Duet:Marina n Sandi
Mel n Rhob singing Summer night-Grease... Yeah!
Dorothy n me (above), Marina n Sandi (below)
After Karaoke, we all went to meet Steve (who closed the store by himself) at Boston Pizza... All of us were so hungry that everything in the menu looked good! We were the only customers left there and they were ready to close... too bad for them, we came along hahaha. If I were in their positions, I would have kicked everyone out! ^.^
si Monyet @ 4/16/2005 09:50:00 AM
Wednesday, April 13, 2005
Short precious quotesThe following quote is meant to let those men that do not treat women with respect. That women are not there to be taken advantage of or walked all over.all Women should be treated with respect. This is written in the Hebrew Talmud, the book where all of the sayings and preaching of Rabbis are conserved over time. It says: "Be very careful if you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man's rib. Not from his feet to be walked on. Not from his head to be superior, but from the side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved." Pass this on to all exceptional women that you know.. and to Men so they know the value of Women.
Today I smiled, and all at once Things didn't look so bad. Today I shared with someone else, A little bit of hope I had. Today I sang a little song, And felt my heart grow light. I walked a happy little mile, With not a cloud in sight. Today I worked with what I had, And longed for nothing more, And what had seemed like only weeds, Were flowers at my door. Today I loved a little more, And complained a little less. And in the giving of myself, I forgot my weariness. Smile! It just feels good! If you have a smile, share it!
March 30, 2005
Being Truly Free
Letting Go
There is tremendous freedom in letting go. It is liberation to free ourselves of things that clutter our lives; too many possessions, useless emotions, unhealthy habits, old beliefs, even people that drain our energy. All of these things and more can weigh us down. Every once in awhile it's good to "clean out our closets" literally and figuratively.
Like pruning dead branches or like a snake shedding an old skin, we need to let go of the what no longer serves or what no longer fits, so that there is room for something new, alive, and what is needed at this time in our lives. Yet, we are a possessive society. We often hold on to things, feelings, and relationships out of habit or, many times, out of fear of being without. For so much of learning to let go is about learning to trust. We have to be able to trust that, indeed, new branches will grow, that there is a new skin under the old one. And yet, to the degree that we are willing to let go, we are able to receive. When we stop holding on and clinging to anything, we realize we have everything.
For in reality, we really own nothing. Certainly, we don't own people. Our spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, children are not really "ours." Even if we own the title to our house or car, such possessions can be gone in a moment, taken by a natural disaster, an accident, or financial circumstances. Native Americans could not grasp the European concept of "owning" land, anymore than one can own the sky. For everything belongs to the universe, as even we do. When we allow ourselves to rethink our sense of "ownership," it is easier to let go. We no longer need to feel burdened by the responsibility of having to hold on to something. Rethink the value of a prized book collection, a coveted job, and feelings for an old flame. Perhaps it isn't necessary to physically get rid of something, but letting go of the power that a person, ideology, or material object possesses is truly freeing.
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Shy Rhob- Random picsi Monyet @ 4/13/2005 02:35:00 PM
Tuesday, April 12, 2005
Daily OmApril 12, 2005
Winning At Life
Being Your Own Life Coach
No one knows you better than you know yourself. You know your strengths, weaknesses, needs, desires, dislikes, emotions, and physical abilities better than anyone else. You can map out your life better than any therapist, psychic, or guidance counselor. Those people may all be of assistance, but you are the best life coach for you.
To coach yourself in winning at life, be willing to put in the practice. Get involved in your life right now. Be engaged at work and play, even if you want to make changes. Practice being passionate about the mundane things in life, as well as the thrills, and you'll soon find yourself enthusiastic about everything. Map out a game plan for your life by taking the time to think about and realize what you really want. Meditate to clear you mind and open your heart. Write down goals, dreams, revelations that come to you. You may find you that along the way your needs and/or desires may change, but that's part of getting to know you. Focus on your immediate goals and make plans for what you need to do now that will get you where you want to be. Ask the hard questions and be honest with yourself. Recognize what you want to change about yourself to be a better person and do the work required whether it is exercising regularly, developing a spiritual practice, taking a class for career advancement, or being kinder to people.
Cheer yourself on. Let go of harsh criticisms and give yourself the praise and encouragement you desire and need to be a winner. Repeat affirmations daily if they are helpful, pat yourself on the back for a job well done, and console yourself when you're down. Never give up on yourself. When things look bleak, be your own best cheerleader and try to remain optimistic. Look at challenge as an adventure, take risks, and welcome change. Embrace those that come into your life to help you as your team mates and support them as well. Play hard at the game of life and enjoy it and you'll come out a winner.
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Donald n I- random pic
si Monyet @ 4/12/2005 08:35:00 PM
Another nice reading...
1. Give God what's right -- not what's left.
2. Man's way leads to a hopeless end -- God's way leads to an endless hope.
3. A lot of kneeling will keep you in good standing.
4. He who kneels before God can stand before anyone.
5. In the sentence of life, the devil may be a comma--but never let him be
the
period.
6. Don't put a question mark where God puts a period.
7. Are you wrinkled with burden? Come to the church for a face-lift.
8. When praying, don't give God instructions - just report for duty.
9. Don't wait for six strong men to take you to church.
10. We don't change God's message -- His message changes us.
11. The church is prayer-conditioned.
12. When God ordains, He sustains.
13. WARNING: Exposure to the Son may prevent burning.
14. Plan ahead -- It wasn't raining when Noah built the ark.
15. Most people want to serve God, but only in an advisory position.
16. Suffering from truth decay? Brush up on your Bible.
17. Exercise daily -- walk with the Lord.
18. Never give the devil a ride -- he will always want to drive.
19. Nothing else ruins the truth like stretching it.
20. Compassion is difficult to give away because it keeps coming back.
21. He who angers you controls you.
22. Worry is the darkroom in which negatives can develop.
23. Give Satan an inch & he'll be a ruler.
24. Be ye fishers of men -- you catch them & He'll clean them.
25. God doesn't call the qualified, He qualifies the called.
si Monyet @ 4/12/2005 04:17:00 PM
Wow, it's really been a while since I last wrote huh... Well, I'm finally gonna do my first exam today... at 7 pm... essay, for 3 hrs! it's gonna be tense n I'm gonna be anxious... but I trust that God will help me ^.~
U know what, those frenster horoscopes are always nice to read... it helps brighten people's day ... But please don't look at it as a piece of prophecy or eschatology... but look at it as a piece of frenly advice, encouragement, etc... and something to focus on thruout the day... cuz it just makes sense to do that... e.g., to watch your spending habits, to work hard, etc... hehehe
Nobody really knows what's gonna happen, except those whom God chooses to reveal insights to. If we all know what's gonna happen, it'll be plain boring, no? I think it takes away the excitement... and what is life without excitement...
"Too many times we pray for ease, but that's a prayer seldom met. What we need to do is pray for roots that reach deep into the Eternal, so that when the rain falls and the wind blows, we won't be swept asunder" (Philip Gulley- Chicken Soup for the Unsinkable Soul).
I came across this nice poem by Anne Stortz:
When all the world is looming dark
And things seem not so clear,
When shadows seem to hover 'round
Lord, may I persevere.
When it seems everything's been tried
And there's no way to go,
Just let me keep remembering
Sometimes the journey's slow.
I may just need to stop and rest
Along the path I trod,
A time to understand
And have my talk with God.
As I gain new strength to carry on
Without a doubt or fear,
Somehow I know things will be right,
And so, I persevere.
That's it for today folks... I pray for guidance, strength, and help for everyone who are doing their finals, exams, or what have u... and for all the people in need of prayer.
si Monyet @ 4/12/2005 09:31:00 AM
Sunday, April 03, 2005
It's spring and yet, the rain/snow hasn't stopped since yesterday. It's wet snow, so the road is very very slippery and muddy. It's like the heaven is mourning the death of the Pope, Pope John Paul II, who departed yesterday. May God receive his soul in Heaven. Sister Lucia (one of the 3 children the Immaculate Mary appeared to in the early 1900s) died on Thursday... I have no idea how old she was, maybe around 98 y.o? I pray for her too.Well, daylight saving has begun... the clock was moved forward 1 hr.. darn it!
I hate it when I lose 1 hr of sleep... oh well, what can u do, rite...
Rain or no rain, I gotta go to the movies with my little sister today... cuz I promised her we'd watch Ice Princess... It'd better be a darn good movie! And I'm gonna take her out shopping too... that should be fun..NOT.. I don't know why, I'm not thrilled when it comes to shopping.. I get headaches trying clothes on... but today should be fine, I guess, since she'll be the one trying on clothes and I'll just be picking stuff 4 her... hahaha.
I have a fren who has a shoe fetish... oh boy, I cringed everytime I heard her say "I bought new shoes/sandals today" and all I could say in response was "another pair?" hahaha... and she just laughed at me.
I miss Sandi... Sandiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii when are you coming back from the US??? How's your cousin's wedding?
Starting tomorrow, I HAVE to start studying for my final exams... in less than 3 weeks it'll all be over... and then summer courses begin sometime in May... uugghh!
Alrite... moving on to the third season of "Sex n the city" DVD. On Thursday, Sam said, "You know what, I think u're addicted to TV shows!" hahaha... I replied "You know what, I might be!" hahaha... It all started with "Nip/Tuck"... finished season 1, and then moved on to "Six Feet Under", finished seasons 1 n 2... n then "The O. C" halfway thru season 1... it started to get boring after about 6 episodes... I heard Fox TV might cancel the show, cuz it got boring and the public lost interest... no kidding! Oh and "Dead Like Me" was very good too... finished season 1.
And then I moved on to "Sex n the City" there are 6 seasons, and I'm almost halfway thru... what else did I watch? I'm sure there are others, but I just can't think of them right now...
You know what I love about NOT watching TV and just watch them when they come out on DVD? I don't have to wait! hahaha... I can just watch them whenever I want to and however many episodes I wanna watch at any one time. Yeah!
Oh, 2 of my frens saw "Sin City" and they LOVED it... I saw the trailer and I'm now dying to see it! It looks excellent! Plus, it's an all-star cast! Benicio Del Toro, Elijah Wood, Bruce Willis, Jessica Alba, Brittany Murphy, Rosario Dawson, Clive Owen, Josh Hartnett, Alexis Bledel, and Jaime King. I'm so looking forward to seeing it... FIONAAAAAAAAAA u wanna go see it on Wednesday???? that is, if u ain't workin' on Wed... gimme a call babe...
I'd better go... ta ta everyone... have a nice Sunday ^.~
Fifi et moi- random pic
si Monyet @ 4/03/2005 09:58:00 AM
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